Raging against the Family Machine
(Originally published on Motherless Mom, June 8, 2020) Several years ago, my oldest was two years old and I was very pregnant with kid #2. Well, pregnant enough that I felt huge and restricted but not huge enough that the light at the end of the tunnel was near, so probably around 5 months or…
Death, Birth, and the Necessity of Reinvention
(Originally published on Motherless Mom, October 16, 2019) My mother passed away on August 20, 2005, less than two weeks after I turned 20. My birthday and the anniversary of my mother’s death have been a part of the same story ever since. It doesn’t matter where I am or what I am doing, come…